Discover which Archetype Best Captures Your Role as a Second Mom!
Welcome!
Get ready to discover your personal second mom archetype and gain insights into your strengths and challenges.
This quiz will help you understand your own mom role better and find the support you need.
Perfect for Christian moms navigating complex post adoption family dynamics.
What's Your Second Mom Archetype?
The Nurturing Guide
If you have always had a nurturing spirit, you may be a Nurturing Guide!
As a Christian adoptive mother with a nurturing spirit, you undoubtedly possess a beautiful gift for creating a loving and supportive environment for your children.
Your admirable desire to nurture, however, can sometimes lead to...
... Overextending yourself
...Trying to meet every need on your own and leaving little time for self-care
... Experiencing emotional fatigue, especially when adjustments in the family dynamic take longer than anticipated
The Resilient Advocate
If you've always been driven to take action on behalf of the vulnerable, you may be a Resilient Advocate!
Perhaps you face challenges head-on and advocate fiercely for your family.
Despite your inspiring ability to overcome obstacles, you may be…
…Experiencing burnout
…Feeling unsupported and uncared for
…Uncharacteristically disinterested or emotionally numb
The Reflective Strategist
As a Reflective Strategist, problem solving is part of your DNA!
You carefully analyze problems and situations, developing strategies to benefit everyone involved.
Even with your ability to carefully plan and think things through, you may sometimes…
…Struggle with “analysis paralysis” in decision-making
…Feel over-stressed and under-appreciated
…Feel defeated by constant new challenges
The Compassionate Connector
Your capacity for compassion and empathy may peg you as a Compassionate Connector!
Your heart of compassion and enormous empathy may have played a large role in your decision to adopt.
The flipside of these great qualities might also lead you into ...
... Emotional exhaustion, as adoptive mothers often carry the emotional burdens of their children, especially if they come from difficult backgrounds
... Difficulty in setting healthy boundaries
...Feelings of frustration or disappointment when building family bonds take longer than expected or fail to happen at all
... Stress or self-doubt under pressure to create a perfect family dynamic
