Empowering Second Moms: Setting Better Boundaries for a More Balanced Year

Empowering Second Moms: Setting Better Boundaries for a More Balanced Year
Whether you're raising adopted children, stepchildren, or the children of relatives, you're navigating an incredible journey filled with both significant challenges and rich rewards.   

As we venture into this new year, it's the perfect time to consider how we can set healthy personal boundaries that empower us to thrive as individuals and parents. Boundaries are essential for setting yourself up for success as a second mom! 


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Loss & Grief, Joy & Hope

Loss & Grief, Joy & Hope

If you've adopted a child (or three!) in the past year or so, despite getting into a routine and getting to know each other better, you feel a sense of loss as the reality of your "new normal" has set in.  
You may find yourself thinking wistfully of those pre-adoption days and what you have essentially given up.

Don’t Gaslight Yourself

Don’t gaslight yourself. Your feelings of loss and grief are valid. You will all likely experience them in the days, weeks, months, years to come. You’ll continue to have adjustments to make. You’ll continue to have opportunities to model moving through grief and loss to your children. 

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Ongoing Effects of Your Adopted Child's Trauma Background that also affect YOU, Mom.

Ongoing Effects of Your Adopted Child's Trauma Background that also affect YOU, Mom.

Parenting is rarely straightforward, but when it comes to adoption, the journey takes on added challenges. One of the profound pieces of this puzzle is recognizing the ongoing effects of the trauma background your child may carry, how it impacts their behaviors and perceptions—especially their belief (or fear) that they may be unlovable, leading them to approach close relationships defensively.
Even as the most prepared adoptive parent, experiencing your incredible love and dedication reflected back with wariness or even rejection from your child can be destabilizing. 
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