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(--) How to Self-Assess for REAL Authenticity

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Today's question is this:  How do we as Christians assess ourselves for real authenticity in the way we are living our lives?

Bible reference: 

How do we as Christians assess ourselves for Real Authenticity?

The word “authenticity” is batted about a lot these days on social media and the like.  It’s not a new thing, however. Back in the day, you might have heard of young folks going off to “find themselves” – or in some of your classes you might have come across the term “self-actualization” which Wikipedia defines the following way:

Self-actualization, in Maslow's hierarchy of needs, is the highest level of psychological development, where personal potential is fully realized after basic bodily and ego needs have been fulfilled. - source: Wikipedia

On the surface, these and other terms might all seem to have the same message - basically to find your interests, talents, and what makes you happy.  

Happiness though is a fleeting emotion that is surface-level rather than soul-level.  Any search for happiness, the authentic self, self-actualization or other similar terms are futile when done apart from the knowledge and consideration of the one who created each and every one of us.  


Maslow (and others) get it wrong in my humble opinion when they place potential over purpose.


So how do we assess our lives? 

And whether we’re living authentically, showing up authentically? 
Should that even be our goal??  

Authenticity for the Christian is aligned with purpose, God’s purpose.  

We cannot live out our authentic purpose separated from God.  We also need each other.  In living out our authentic purpose, we may at times be called on to put aside what would make us happy in the moment, not because others are more important or valuable or have more potential than us, but for God’s purpose to be fulfilled in that situation. 


We might even forego our potential in one area in order to focus on another area more aligned with God’s purpose in our life.  Momentary happiness is not a sufficient goal for a fulfilled life of Godly purpose.  Neither is human potential.  Not that those are bad things.  But they aren’t going to be fulfilling in the long run.  


God’s Word is our measuring stick.  

The Holy Bible is God’s revealed Word.  There is so much there to study and learn!  When doing any kind of self-assessment, I recommend going to God first in prayer and in his Word.  And then check any other advice or guidance for alignment with his Word.  Once you begin you’ll see how very practical and applicable the Bible is to your life.   



  • Legacy living (along with authenticity) is more about purpose. 

  •  Legacy living is more about planting seeds and living in a way that will have long-lasting impact. 

  •  Legacy living for the Christian is about living in a way that fulfills, not just our own human potential but God’s purpose in our life at this time in history. 


 God is not limited by our perceived potential! 

One thing I left out of the audio version of this podcast episode is my challenge to you:

Determine your purpose (maybe for this situation, this season of life in general . . . or all of the above!) - and not merely your potential.  Live for purpose rather than a limited perception of personal potential. 

Your potential may look a lot different now from what God can and will do with you as you surrender your life to him and his purposes.  

I hope this has been encouraging and valuable to you and look forward to your comments. I'd be delighted to hear from you!


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Dawn T. Baggett
Post Adoption (Mom) Coach 

“STANDING IN THE GAP FOR SECOND MOMS in Adoptive & Blended Families

As a Certified LifeMapping(R) Coach, Dawn helps Christian adoptive moms navigate the challenges of their non-traditional families with their own brand of (faith fueled) success!



DISCLAIMER: I’m a coach, not a doctor nor a therapist. As a coach I do not offer mental or medical health diagnosis, treatment or cures.  Furthermore, I am no longer a practicing attorney and do not offer individual legal advice. For individual advice related to your own personal situation I recommend you seek out an appropriate professional. Coaching may fill a spot in your overall support network. 

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Dawn Baggett & Post Adoption Coaching

 

Hi there, I'm Dawn Baggett! 

As a mom in an adoptive family that includes the blending of both, biological and adopted children, with my family you name it and I’ve probably dealt with it at some level —
- navigating attachment issues, 
- trauma, 
- language barriers,
- baffling behaviors,
- special needs,
- accusations,
- chronic illness
- and more…

...with challenges & chaos that have both tested and refined my relationships, my mom role and my Christian faith.  

I’ve found that patterns and dynamics I struggled with were often the SAME ones that were repeated again and again in other homes of adoptive families like mine and within those of similar "second moms"  (step-moms and kinship caregivers raising children and teens that have had a break (for whatever reason) from their first mom).

 I truly believe in the power of faith-driven coaching to support "second moms" navigating the unique challenges of raising children with these often-complex backgrounds. 

My mission is to stand with you, offering guidance and understanding when the rest of your world seems unsure how to help, or even multiplies the problems that you are working so hard to overcome for your child and your family. 

If you're ready to continue your journey with a desire to walk out your faith in your family and mom role in particular, I'm here to be in your corner. Let's connect and explore how we can put together a personal plan that serves you! 

Apply for your free consultation to discover whether post adoption coaching is your next best step:  



With much love,
Dawn

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