THE POST ADOPTION MOM COACH

Providing Post Adoption Support from a Biblical Perspective for “Second Moms” in Adoptive & Blended Families




Remaining a Secure Parent…For Your Child
One cultural myth that is very prevalent today is that parents must affirm sinful & harmful lifestyle choices that run contrary to God’s laws, or we cause our children terrible harm —  like feelings of shame, rejection, fear, insecurity, and to generally feel bad about themselves leading to all kinds of problems for them. 

It is presumed that parents are unkind and unloving if we do not also embrace and adopt these choices.

And it is supposedly hateful or even “abusive” to confront these choices and attempt to steer our children in another direction (even if they are still minors living in our homes). 


A Different Perspective

BUT the Bible gives another perspective. The Easy-to-Read version says this:

People who respect the Lord will be safe, and they will make their children feel secure.
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭14‬:‭26‬ ‭ERV‬‬

If we are wish washy in our own values and beliefs, how can we be an anchor for our children? 

If we are insecure and ready to change our minds as to right & wrong, good & evil, as if we’re updating our wardrobe, how can we help them feel secure? 

***It’s a cultural myth that kids feel more secure when parents affirm their sinful, harmful lifestyle choices.***

Respectful Personal Boundaries

That’s not to say that we should be bulldozers as our children sort out their own values & beliefs. We CAN practice holding our own boundaries in ways that are gentle and respectful of their vulnerabilities. 

We CAN affirm and accept our children without affirming things we know are wrong. 

Respectful of God

Have you experienced this in your family and/or been given advice that goes against your desire to respect God & God’s ways?

You can respectfully reject any advice that goes against your desire to respect God according to your Christian beliefs founded upon Biblical truths and values. 

If you’ve experienced this issue with one of your children, I hope that this encourages you that God’s got your back when you choose to respect him over this myth.

When your children, your parents, your spouse, or the therapist is condemning you for holding to your Christian beliefs and values, it can feel confusing, like you’re walking a tightrope. 

It’s important to have a trusted advisor who is aligned with the same Godly beliefs and values as yours. And someone who understands the types of challenges that come with being a second mom who’s also a committed Christian in today’s culture. If you’re looking for someone like this to support you, I invite you to apply for post adoption coaching with me, starting with a questionnaire to see if we might be a good fit. Click the button below to get started. 


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Dawn T. Baggett
Post Adoption (Mom) Coach 

“STANDING IN THE GAP FOR SECOND MOMS in Adoptive & Blended Families

As a Certified LifeMapping(R) Coach, Dawn helps Christian adoptive moms navigate the challenges of their non-traditional families with their own brand of (faith fueled) success!



DISCLAIMER: I’m a coach, not a doctor nor a therapist. As a coach I do not offer mental or medical health diagnosis, treatment or cures.  Furthermore, I am no longer a practicing attorney and do not offer individual legal advice. For individual advice related to your own personal situation I recommend you seek out an appropriate professional. Coaching may fill a spot in your overall support network. 

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Dawn Baggett & Post Adoption Coaching

 

Hi there, I'm Dawn Baggett! 

As a mom in an adoptive family that includes the blending of both, biological and adopted children, I've been through it all—navigating attachment issues, trauma, special needs and chronic illness...with challenges & chaos that have both tested and refined my Christian faith.   

In addition to my own personal parenting experiences, my law degree from the University of Alabama, various certificates and courses on topics ranging from coaching to trauma to relationships, as well as my research & observations of the experiences of others have all brought invaluable insights into supporting adoptive moms like myself.  I found that patterns and dynamics that I struggled with were often the SAME ones that were repeated again and again in other homes of adoptive families like mine and within those of similar "second moms" like step-moms and kinship caregivers who are raising children and teens that have had a break (for whatever reason) from their first mom. 

I truly believe in the power of faith-driven coaching to support "second moms" navigating the unique challenges of raising children with these often-complex backgrounds. My mission is to stand with you, offering guidance and understanding when the rest of your world seems unsure how to help, or even multiplies the problems that you are working so hard to overcome for your child and your family. 

If you're ready to continue your journey with a desire to walk out your faith in your family and mom role in particular, I'm here to be in your corner. Let's connect and explore how we can put together a personal plan that serves you! 

Apply for a free consultation call to discover whether post adoption coaching is your next best step:  

With love,
Dawn

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